Age-appropriate chores for kids
Chores don't just help the house; they teach responsibility and independence. Here is a list to start with. Every child is different, so pick what suits yours.
Ages 3 to 5
- Put toys away after playing.
- Put dirty clothes in the basket.
- Help set the table (spoons and napkins).
- Feed a pet with help.
Ages 6 to 8
- Make the bed every morning.
- Pack their school bag.
- Put their plate in the sink after eating.
- Water the plants.
- Line up shoes by the door.
Ages 9 to 12
- Finish homework before playtime.
- Empty the dishwasher or put clean dishes away.
- Tidy the whole room.
- Help fold laundry.
- Make a simple snack.
Ages 13 to 16
- Wash their own clothes.
- Cook a simple meal for the family.
- Help with shopping and carrying bags.
- Study for a set time every day.
- Help a younger sibling with homework.
How to make chores stick
- A good chore is clear and has a finish line you can check: "put your plate in the sink" beats "help in the kitchen".
- Start small, three to six a day, then add more gradually.
- Praise effort specifically: "you made your bed fast today" is stronger than "good job".
- Link chores to something your child cares about, like playtime or a wish they are saving for.
How Kite helps
In Kite you write your child's chores once or as repeating ones, and set the points for each. Your child marks one done and you get a notification; you approve, the points are added, and they spend them on playtime or save them for a wish.
Make and print a free chore chart for your child →
Quick answers
What chores are right for a 5-year-old?
Short, simple ones: putting toys away, putting clothes in the basket, and helping set the table.
How many chores a day should a child have?
Start with three to six clear daily chores, then add more gradually depending on your child's age and consistency.
Last updated: · The Kite team
